Friday, February 21, 2014

Of Bread and Ham and Joy

I am too happy to be productive!  So here is a blog post!

There is some endorphin, I am sure of it, that is released into a teacher when she nails a lesson and the lights go on in her students’ eyes.  There is something about that moment of ‘ah-ha’!  And when they laugh and enjoy the moment along with you, oh it makes me giddy!  We are playing together.  Because the best learning happens when we play!

This semester I am teaching three classes: Rocks & Mineralogy, English Conversation, and English Writing for ET (a technical writing class).  At the end of our first English Writing class I gave my students a simple assignment.  “Write me directions for making a ham sandwich.”

Today, they handed in their assignments, some hand written at the last minute on a strip of paper, others neatly printed with steps, and one written in flowing handwriting with a photograph showing each step.  This last one I put at the bottom of the pile.  It would be a grand example of exactly what I would look for in their writing in the future.

They were not expecting what happened next.  Bread, ham, mayo, mustard, tomatoes, onions, pickles.  A knife and cutting board.  And paper towels for plates.  The students 'oh-ed- and giggled as the 'materials' for today's demonstration were placed on the desk.

I picked up the first student's directions, placed a paper towel in front of me, and got to work.  I read each student’s recipe aloud, and painstakingly followed every step that they had prepared for me.  Exactly the way that they wrote them.  I did not add any extra interpretation of my own.  I just followed their directions.

The results were hilarious!

Some sandwiches ended up with pieces of bread covered in mayo.  Yes, both sides of each piece.  That is what they had specified in the instructions: “cover both pieces of bread in mayonnaise.” So I did it.  Some said to just put the ham on the bread.  They didn’t tell me to slice it.  But I didn’t think it would be fair for them to have all of the ham, so after I put the whole block of processed meat on the bread I took it off and gave them a slice.

Many told me to just put the parts of the sandwich there.   Where?  Hmm, I could see no specific instructions about where the parts were to go.  So the ‘plate’ had every ingredient of the sandwich nicely laid out side by side.

Laughter filled the room.  By the end of the class the point had sunk down deep into a happy place in our hearts.  Writing, especially technical writing, must be clear and complete.  If not, you end up with sandwich pieces all over the plate or mayonnaise-drenched bread.  Or something worse!

I love my job!  I cannot tell you how grand this is!

What is this source of joy?  Could it be the Spirit of God?  Could it be that He enjoys watching us learn?  He knows everything, but when the lights go on in our eyes regarding the truth He speaks over us, does His heart leap with joy like mine did today?


I think it must be so.  We are, after all, made in His image.

(I SO wish I had pictures of today - as you can imagine, the work was a bit too messy for me to handle a camera.  But if any students took photos, I'll pass those along!)

Monday, February 17, 2014

Handcrafted Answer to a Prayer

When did I first start praying for this young woman?  I do not remember.  Long before I was introduced to Uka, I knew I would need to meet her.  I would need her friendship and camaraderie.  I would cherish her insight into her culture.  I would learn from her as I passed along my own experiences.  And together we would birth a bilingual kids ministry.

Because that is not something you should try doing solo.

When did I start to ask God for a person to fill this role?  It must be about two years ago...

God is funny and mysterious.  He lives outside of time.  So He had been working on an answer to my new prayer for over two decades.

Meet Uka.

Uka!

"I was praying, and think we need to communicate with our children's parents about what we are doing in class so they can talk about it at home," Uka mentioned to me as we got together to pray for our Antioch Mongolia's kids.  Seriously, I had the same idea two weeks ago, chica.  But got overwhelmed with the idea of how to do it in our bilingual setting.

This scenario is recurrent with the two of us.  God drops His ideas into both of our heads.  And where I hit the 'but how do we do that in Mongolia?!?' wall, Uka has an idea of how to get us there.

I'm not telling you much about the inside of this fascinating, faithful woman of God, yet.  I'm looking for words.  Genuine.  Sold out.  Child-hearted.  Wise.  Quirky.  Creative.  Humble.  Talented.  Multifaceted.  Beautiful.

Uka moments after her baptism - summer 2013


I wish you could see her for a Sunday with our children.  There is a genuine smile of joy blazing from her eyes as much as between her cheeks.  When anyone talks to her, from the littlest to the oldest, they have her full attention - she is down at their level, listening with her ears and her eyes, actively loving.  When she translates she matches my energy, like a harmony being sung by my side, and fills in the gaps that my cultural bent creates.  When she prays, she is in her Daddy's lap and demonstrates invitingly how close anyone can be to Abba.

Dance party at kids' church!  Uka is the tall 'kid' in back.

This is the one God prepared as an answer to my prayer of two years ago.  This is Uka.

pause - insight into my life

You might say I'm a bit of a control freak.  A perfectionist.  Hmm.  Many have said the latter.  I know I am also the former.

Giving over a project, a plan, a class, a lesson.  Knowingly or subconsciously, I grip my little kingdom. I do not like to let go.  I do not share well.  

I need to grow here.

A lot.

But I trust Uka.  Entirely.  With kids, with teaching, with translation.  Easily.  Freely.  Joyfully!

And in January I had the joy of sitting in the nest and watching this young woman take her first flight.  She ran our children's department for two weeks while I was away for a conference in Thailand.  The photos and stories she sent while I was away made my heart sing.

You should know something else about Uka.  She doesn't have my control-freak hang-ups.  As soon as she was released to lead she immediately set others among our volunteers, and even our kids, free to fly in their own ways.

I'm glad I am only planting this sapling.  If I were to hold onto it, I'd limit its root space out of fear of it not growing 'just right'.  Uka will free this ministry to grow into much more than I could.

Uka on right - faithfully translating for me.
Reminds me of a song I listened to again today.

"What you have done, others will do,
bigger and better and faster than you,"

(Rick Pino's "Pioneer")

I do not mind that.  At all.  Uka and others will grow this children’s ministry and release it to flourish.  I am just happy to fulfill another line of the same song.

"But the Father in heaven, He is glad you can go,
For those who come after you will need the road."

Uka teaching our kids
It turns out that I was not the only one praying about this ministry to children long ahead of its birth.  Uka let me know months after she joined me that she had asked God to give her an opportunity to learn how to minister to children.  When she discovered what we were planning for the children of this then church-to-be, she knew that she wanted to be a part.  But she wasn't sure if I would want her help.

Oh, girl.  If she hadn't jumped in.  Oh.  I'm glad I do not have to think about what that would have looked like.

I am thankful, instead, that this will be beautiful.  And that Uka’s prayers were answered along with mine.


The beauty of answered prayers.

Monday, February 10, 2014

One Year in Mongolia

I have now lived in Mongolia for one adventure-filled year.  A church has been birthed.  Along with a children's ministry.  I've learned a lot about mutton and yogurt.  And teaching English and geology.  I've made some beautiful friends.  And I've seen many of them discover the love of God.

It has been a good year.  And I am looking forward to the next!

Just in case it was hard to see the photos from my email update, I am posting them here.  Along with some fresh prayer requests below!



Piping Fresh Prayer Requests
Here are some up-to-date (as of this post, ya know) prayer points for fuel.  Thank you for lifting us up!

- a young man to disciple our 10 to 15 year old boys - we want them to know that following Jesus is totally worth everything!

- comfort for a family in our body who lost their 12-month old daughter two weeks ago, and for another family who teaches at my university who lost their 18-month old son one week ago.

- grace in this next semester to teach well, and let go of extraneous details that could swamp me (I am a bit of a perfectionist!)

- excellent connections during discipleship times with girls from school and church

- wisdom for us as a church to know how to reach the young men of Ulaanbaatar